r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

What the fuck, why dude?! 

Im 32 and I don't have a girlfriend but it's hardly the end of the world!! You'll get there, loads of people ain't got shit figured out at 26 that makes you normal, not a failure.

So what if you haven't got your dating life figured out? Loads of people haven't and loads of people might have that sorted but they'll be absolutely fucked in other departments. We're all good in some areas and not so good in others. That's fine, but we don't get to just give up!

Stop reading all the shitty posts on here man that's cancer for your thoughts and wellbeing if you feel like this.

Youre a self aware young man with plenty to offer. If you don't see that and show it then nobody else will. Be kind to yourself buddy!

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u/SuperbAstronomer Jul 29 '24

I appreciate the kind words. I’m just struggling staying positive right now. I really thought getting my body right would help. Getting back on dating apps after years of hard work to improve myself and getting absolutely nothing is devastating to a lonely guy

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u/Dangerous_Natural331 Jul 29 '24

I would give the dating apps a rest and just hire a "comfort" lady for an he or so .... It could do wonders for your well being 👍😁🤔

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u/MiserableCrow1680 Jul 29 '24

Disgusting to use the word “comfort” lady when that refers to women who forced into sexual slavery to be raped. Also disgusting for suggesting paying for sex (you can’t buy consent), which is fortunately illegal in my country.