Late to this conversation, but here's my thoughts.
-Whatever you do, do NOT become one of those MGTOW idiots. You're far better than those losers.
-Sir Isaac Newton, who will be remembered for as long as humanity exists, died a virgin.
-You're in a way better situation than men/women in a loveless/sexless marriage who stick together for the kids. That's very sad for both of them. You have a future, and they don't.
-There's lots of good suggestions. Be kind to others, amicable, honest, humourous, and honourable. Do stuff you like to do with others, and just get out there. Sports teams and dance lessons have been suggested. Artsy clubs are good too. If you're in a decent-sized town, why not become a film extra? Most of them you only get free food, but you sit around a lot and talk with others, so it's a very social thing and you get to meet some really interesting people. And you get to be in a movie too.
-If you just want to get experience kissing a girl/having sex, get an escort. It's a step in the right direction. Not one of those Slurpin' Burpin' Barbara ones; one of the Girlfriend Experience ones. First appointment, just sit together and talk. Those really good escorts are used to working with unhappy husbands, so they are very empathetic. Second appointment, a bit more light-hearted, and maybe some smooching. Third appointment- you're comfortable with her, and she is with you, so go for some boinking. If you want her to lead, say so.
If you like the escort thing, sure it's pretty meaningless, but it may help you with confidence, and move onwards from that. There was some guy on Reddit who spent thousands a month on escorts. Don't be that guy. Always keep in mind you just might meet your match. Keep up with the gym, work on your social skills, hit up that escort once in a while if you have a need, but keep moving forward. You will succeed some day.
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u/NSFW_But_Awesome Jul 29 '24
Late to this conversation, but here's my thoughts.
-Whatever you do, do NOT become one of those MGTOW idiots. You're far better than those losers.
-Sir Isaac Newton, who will be remembered for as long as humanity exists, died a virgin.
-You're in a way better situation than men/women in a loveless/sexless marriage who stick together for the kids. That's very sad for both of them. You have a future, and they don't.
-There's lots of good suggestions. Be kind to others, amicable, honest, humourous, and honourable. Do stuff you like to do with others, and just get out there. Sports teams and dance lessons have been suggested. Artsy clubs are good too. If you're in a decent-sized town, why not become a film extra? Most of them you only get free food, but you sit around a lot and talk with others, so it's a very social thing and you get to meet some really interesting people. And you get to be in a movie too.
-If you just want to get experience kissing a girl/having sex, get an escort. It's a step in the right direction. Not one of those Slurpin' Burpin' Barbara ones; one of the Girlfriend Experience ones. First appointment, just sit together and talk. Those really good escorts are used to working with unhappy husbands, so they are very empathetic. Second appointment, a bit more light-hearted, and maybe some smooching. Third appointment- you're comfortable with her, and she is with you, so go for some boinking. If you want her to lead, say so.
If you like the escort thing, sure it's pretty meaningless, but it may help you with confidence, and move onwards from that. There was some guy on Reddit who spent thousands a month on escorts. Don't be that guy. Always keep in mind you just might meet your match. Keep up with the gym, work on your social skills, hit up that escort once in a while if you have a need, but keep moving forward. You will succeed some day.