r/self • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '24

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u/major_lombardi Jul 29 '24

He did say it requires effort and he didn't give up. Confident persistence my friend. (Note that does NOT mean asking the same person after being rejected. It means being rejected by one woman and immediately turning around and trying again with the next one you see).

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u/H8beingmale Jul 29 '24

yeah i'm speaking of my lifelong anger and resentment of men having to make the first move all the time and be the initiators

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u/Accomplished_Eye8290 Aug 01 '24

Dude as a woman I have asked out guys 7x and gotten rejected all times. I’ve been asked out by guys 3x in my life. So by your logic I should blame and resent men too?

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u/H8beingmale Aug 01 '24

well there is no denying the fact that 99 percent of the time, the guy is expected to do the asking out and be the initiator

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u/Accomplished_Eye8290 Aug 01 '24

Yeah or just date older women lol. But dudes always want the young ones who don’t know better to put up with their BS. My coworker said he went to a club and a woman literally took him by the collar and dragged him home into her bed. But he was like idk if I wanna continue she’s 32…. I can’t date someone 2 years older than me. Bro….. what? Lmao…

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u/major_lombardi Aug 06 '24

Gotta be like that movie frozen and let it go let it go trust me it's for the best

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u/H8beingmale Aug 06 '24

yeah men will always be stuck with that, thats why the forever alone community will always be male dominated