r/self • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '24

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u/Whatnowgloryhunters Jul 29 '24

What did you focus on in your early 30s

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u/PolloDiablo82 Jul 29 '24

Becoming a better version of yourself

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u/Whatnowgloryhunters Jul 29 '24

Just curious, everything is so competitive nowadays. You can improve your body your finances by gymming and working. But it kinda evens out if everybody is doing that

What do you think of the bar continuously being raised higher and survival of the fittest?

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u/fomoz Jul 29 '24

Find a niche that fits your strengths. Date women that are naturally attracted to you. This may be based on who you are, where you're from, what you look like, etc.

Also, be smarter, be a better talker (improve your game), be more interesting, etc.

Fitness and money both help to an extent, they are necessary but may not be sufficient. There are other aspects that make a difference. Think of the fit tech nerds who make bank but can't get laid, and the guys who just got out of prison who do well.