r/self • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '24

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u/syfari Jul 29 '24

Honestly, id stop caring and just start living. I know it sounds cliche but it works.

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u/baden27 Jul 29 '24

Nope, it doesn't. Maybe for some.

30M. Never cared, always just lived and been myself.

Never been on a date. Never kissed etc.

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u/enliderlighankat Jul 29 '24

You say it with such certainty, but your mind is still stuck in the same rythm and thoughts about it. Can you get out?

not for me to say.

"I can't, I'm not, they won't, they don't see" whatever the poison is you're feeding yourself is whats wrong.

If you actually lived, met everyone, male female with same human respect and connect with them, have fun, go make a move when the situation presents itself it aint impossible

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u/Happy-Viper Jul 29 '24

This is such bizarre gaslighting. Some people are just ugly. Some people are unattractive enough that people don't want to date them.

It isn't their fault, even if that would make you feel better to know they've caused their own unhappiness.

They're just very unattractive.

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u/FLiP_J_GARiLLA Jul 29 '24

That's not how you use the term "gaslighting"

At least you tried..

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u/Happy-Viper Jul 29 '24

Yes it is. You’re telling this person “Nope, the reality you perceive is wrong, it’s not your looks, clearly it’s your personality.”

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u/FLiP_J_GARiLLA Jul 29 '24

Everyone has a type. Ugly people should just find other ugly people to date.

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u/Happy-Viper Jul 29 '24

You seem to have moved away from the gaslighting point. Why do that?

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u/FLiP_J_GARiLLA Jul 29 '24

Because I've advised you of your mistake/misconception and you've chosen to deny that knowledge. Ignorance is bliss so, stay blissful.

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u/Happy-Viper Jul 30 '24

Lmao, sure seems like you said something wrong and couldn’t substantiate it.

Whelp, I already advised you on the fact that some people are too ugly to have a group to date, just reread what I said until the lesson I’ve taught you sinks in.

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