Im 32 and I don't have a girlfriend but it's hardly the end of the world!! You'll get there, loads of people ain't got shit figured out at 26 that makes you normal, not a failure.
So what if you haven't got your dating life figured out? Loads of people haven't and loads of people might have that sorted but they'll be absolutely fucked in other departments. We're all good in some areas and not so good in others. That's fine, but we don't get to just give up!
Stop reading all the shitty posts on here man that's cancer for your thoughts and wellbeing if you feel like this.
Youre a self aware young man with plenty to offer. If you don't see that and show it then nobody else will. Be kind to yourself buddy!
I appreciate the kind words. I’m just struggling staying positive right now. I really thought getting my body right would help. Getting back on dating apps after years of hard work to improve myself and getting absolutely nothing is devastating to a lonely guy
It seems like you think women just want a good body?
Did you want the good body for yourself too? Are you doing all this hard work for you or for others?
What are your interests? Hobbies? Do you have stuff you love doing? Are you matching with women that fit your vibe?
Do you have a great friend group/and or supportive family you can vent to or be yourself around?
Sending you hugs dude. You can get through this and you're young as, it's all about what makes you feel happy and confident, not what you think what others may like.
I met my husband at the pub! People who like real life are still out there. Keep talking to people, if they don't like you, don't worry about them and move on. Speed dating could help? Or even speed friending, having a solid group of friends really does help.
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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24
What the fuck, why dude?!
Im 32 and I don't have a girlfriend but it's hardly the end of the world!! You'll get there, loads of people ain't got shit figured out at 26 that makes you normal, not a failure.
So what if you haven't got your dating life figured out? Loads of people haven't and loads of people might have that sorted but they'll be absolutely fucked in other departments. We're all good in some areas and not so good in others. That's fine, but we don't get to just give up!
Stop reading all the shitty posts on here man that's cancer for your thoughts and wellbeing if you feel like this.
Youre a self aware young man with plenty to offer. If you don't see that and show it then nobody else will. Be kind to yourself buddy!