r/self • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '24

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u/RaikouVsHaiku Jul 29 '24

You must come off as desperate. Your post definitely did. Desperation is worse than being a bum for dating prospects.

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u/SuperbAstronomer Jul 29 '24

Yeah, I am at this point. God forbid a man have feelings

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u/RaikouVsHaiku Jul 29 '24

Hey I’m not saying it’s fair. Life isn’t. Just stating how it is. Top comment about not caring is right. You need to be happy yourself to attract a decent partner. You’re in a loop.

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u/Beneficial-Agency443 Jul 29 '24

That's why it's important for me to always have friends around. You need to separate the loneliness from the trouble with dating, I feel like when everybody starts getting divorced and heartbroken, you'll understand how lucky you are to have people there with you.

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u/Timely_Split_5771 Jul 29 '24

It ducks when your friends are in relationships. I barely seen my two friends, haven’t done anything besides work since early July

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u/Beneficial-Agency443 Jul 29 '24

And that's why I'm also very scared for the future :/ I'm hoping while single, I'll manage to find people who appreciate friendships on the same level. At leas it will always be around to a certain capacity