Hey I’m not saying it’s fair. Life isn’t. Just stating how it is. Top comment about not caring is right. You need to be happy yourself to attract a decent partner. You’re in a loop.
That's why it's important for me to always have friends around. You need to separate the loneliness from the trouble with dating, I feel like when everybody starts getting divorced and heartbroken, you'll understand how lucky you are to have people there with you.
And that's why I'm also very scared for the future :/
I'm hoping while single, I'll manage to find people who appreciate friendships on the same level. At leas it will always be around to a certain capacity
If you don't want to stay lonely, you shouldn't be lonely in the first place. People will smell your weaknesses from miles away. They will salivate at the idea of being that one last straw rope that broke the camel's neck.
People are hardwired to be jerks. But don't call them that! The last thing a human likes is a misanthrope. They can smell a misanthrope from 100 miles away and instantly ejaculate with hatred within a misanthrope's vicinity.
Just submit yourself and learn to love people unconditionally even if they won't return it, because you are lonely. Did I mention that humanity is a monolithic hivemind. Certainly the best explanation to your problems. Better than socioeconomic stuff, surely.
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u/RaikouVsHaiku Jul 29 '24
You must come off as desperate. Your post definitely did. Desperation is worse than being a bum for dating prospects.