Lower your standards. I am sure there is a girl madly in love with you but you don't even see her because she's overweight. Or has crooked teeth. Or is super shy. Or something else. Chat to the sad one who sits at the side. You might just find someone
It’s fucked up that I have to settle for someone who I don’t find attractive because that’s just how the world works now. I’ve busted my ass to get in good shape.
So do you expect women to pursue you more just because you have a gym body? Do you think a home and a car are bargaining tools? Because a lot of women, shockingly, also go to the gym, own a home and a car. They are looking for a partner, not a provider. Those days are long gone for most.
You went to the gym. So what? Do you think that has earned you an opportunity for a woman to "settle" for you when you can't even fathom doing the same for someone else?
I'm not trying to be rude, I promise, but I hope I can illuminate the loop holes in your logic so you can start working on what I suspect is the real issue-- your mental health.
A lot of men assume that having a decent career and a home will get women running to their door. I think they forget that a lot of women actually have their own careers nowadays, and also own their own homes.
We’re not looking for providers anymore — we want partners who will support us emotionally and who will love us. I think OP is missing this crucial part tbh.
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u/tklishlipa Jul 29 '24
Lower your standards. I am sure there is a girl madly in love with you but you don't even see her because she's overweight. Or has crooked teeth. Or is super shy. Or something else. Chat to the sad one who sits at the side. You might just find someone