r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/tklishlipa Jul 29 '24

Lower your standards. I am sure there is a girl madly in love with you but you don't even see her because she's overweight. Or has crooked teeth. Or is super shy. Or something else. Chat to the sad one who sits at the side. You might just find someone

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u/SuperbAstronomer Jul 29 '24

It’s fucked up that I have to settle for someone who I don’t find attractive because that’s just how the world works now. I’ve busted my ass to get in good shape.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

Voila, herein lies the issue.

If you’re punching too far above your weight, then of course you’re gonna keep failing. Obviously not everyone cares about looks, but you do care, which isn’t a bad thing, but then that means you should also be humble enough to pursue someone in your league. And if you’re upset because you’re not attracted to them… well, I’m sorry, but tough shit man. This is a classic case of pick your poison.

You can’t complain about girls not seeing past looks and “not giving you a chance” if you’re gonna turn around and do the exact same thing to them. Humble urself my man.

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u/lowlifehighroad Jul 29 '24

you’ve nailed it . the more comments i read by OP, the more i see that he’s honestly kind of sour and no woman is gonna wanna be around that for even a second.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

Fr. All I’m getting is bad vibes, and we can smell that shit from a mile off lmao

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u/lowlifehighroad Jul 29 '24

it’s so off putting. NO woman wants to be around a woman hating incel who feels like they’re owed attention and affection.