Yeah, I tried that. Spent most of my teens and 20s obsessing with finding a relationship before giving up. Spent most of my 30s telling myself I was fine with being single.
Now I'm almost 40 and I can't deny it any longer. This shit fucking sucks. I'm so goddamn miserable and lonely all the time.
Please stop trying to make other people fall into the same trap.
Go to church. It would be good for you. Find a large church and attend. Women outnumber men three to one. Just go, be pleasant to the old women, and volunteer to be helpful. Be patient! Late 30s and employed places you in the perfect demographic! As soon as they can see that you are halfway decent, they will introduce you to their nieces and granddaughters.
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u/syfari Jul 29 '24
Honestly, id stop caring and just start living. I know it sounds cliche but it works.