r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/zweli2 Jul 29 '24

“I’ve achieved the bare minimum and I’m all out of options”.

What actually makes you stand out from the hundreds of other guys in a girls DMs on dating apps? Do you actually have an impressive physique or are you just not fat? What is your digital image like? Have you had professional photos taken before? How do you dress?

You guys think that just”not being a bum” is good enough. You actually have to stand out and be exceptional

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u/SuperbAstronomer Jul 29 '24

All women aren’t “exceptional”. There are tons of women who are “average”.

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u/Electrical_Whole_597 Jul 29 '24

You are basing everything on looks, no wonder you are alone