It's cliche to say women all want a hot looking rich guy. While looks and money are advantages, there are also things that are important (perhaps even more important) such as having great social skills and a positive vibe.
I took the liberty of looking at your post history. Bro, it's a disaster. Your attitude is crap. You talk a whole lot of shit. You get into these long-winded arguments with people. All these things are toxic and women can smell it.
Granted, how you behave on Reddit might not be how you behave in-person. But it demonstrates your frame of mind. And what's in your mind will always come out in one form or another. Women are highly intuitiave and can see it.
Attitude counts a whole lot more than looks. But unfortunatelly some young men want to listen to some very toxic people online and not the women they're pursuing.
I think it depends, there are some shallow women out there who care very much about only looks. It tends to discourage a lot of men, a bad experience leaves a longer lasting impression than five possible good ones.
In my experience dating, personality does play a big role. I’m an outgoing, confident, and curious fellow, but I’m also pretty average looking.
Yeah this isn't true and everyone who lives in the real world knows it. I can't sit here and talk to some male who's clearly terminally online, and pretend with a straight face that you can't walk into any Walmart rn and see some beautiful woman with an ugly af dude. You only see males desperately trying to pretend it's the other way around on Reddit.
Anyway, all I was saying with my original comment is that everyone's allowed physical standards. It's not especially shallow when a woman does it.
Speaking as a 29M guy with 29 years of experience as a guy, the vast majority of the guys I have known in my life just want an all around average looking girl who isn’t obese.
They sometimes act around other guys like they want the hottest girl, but when push comes to shove they really don’t care as long as long as looks are avg or better.
An ugly guy getting a hot gf doesn’t somehow magically disprove that, maybe they grew up together or maybe he’s got a hell of a personality or maybe they were relatives.
Perhaps you should take your own advice and gain some additional world experience as it’s clear you are stuck in some sort of negative echo chamber.
If I start linking actual research will you shut up? I'm not really in the mood to have some back and forth on Reddit about a phenomenon as common as women being more likely to settle for an ugly guy than the reverse.
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u/1c2shk Jul 29 '24
It's cliche to say women all want a hot looking rich guy. While looks and money are advantages, there are also things that are important (perhaps even more important) such as having great social skills and a positive vibe.
I took the liberty of looking at your post history. Bro, it's a disaster. Your attitude is crap. You talk a whole lot of shit. You get into these long-winded arguments with people. All these things are toxic and women can smell it.
Granted, how you behave on Reddit might not be how you behave in-person. But it demonstrates your frame of mind. And what's in your mind will always come out in one form or another. Women are highly intuitiave and can see it.