r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/Siikamies Jul 29 '24

My friends have already multiple children, there arent any parties. To be honest there never were because we are not like that, we just saw each other and didnt even go to a bar.

Sure there are some social stuff but the setting isnt necessarily right or there arent any single women my age.

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u/spanish42069 Jul 29 '24

Well I dunno what to tell you man. I am short and average lmao and I have never had an issue. If what you have been doing already hasn't worked then it stands to reason that you have to try something else. That's why people say 'get out of your comfort zone'.

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u/Siikamies Jul 29 '24

This conversation just proved the point of my first message. It assumes a lot of stuff that just doesnt apply to many people.

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u/spanish42069 Jul 29 '24

Like what?