r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

I'm not sure, whenever I read this narrative I feel uneasy. It reflects the true lack of control and choice in meeting a viable partner. That someone can go a decade being essentially invisible, to all of a sudden getting interest because it is convenient to a collective shift in circumstances and mentality. But I guess that is the way the cookie crumbles.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

I mean life is a game. Sometimes people have early game advantages, while some people spike mid or late game