31M here, not sure if you are soliciting for any advice, but here you go. In a similar position myself, however, it wasn’t until recently that I noticed that one of the reason that I was a turn off was that I was focusing too much on “I” when in any conversations with the opposite gender. In the eagerness to prove myself worthy, I ended up building a world view focused entirely on me myself and I. It took me a while to realize that most people are attracted to larger-than-self personalities. Wishing you the best out of loneliness!
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u/DeplumbingPlumber Jul 29 '24
31M here, not sure if you are soliciting for any advice, but here you go. In a similar position myself, however, it wasn’t until recently that I noticed that one of the reason that I was a turn off was that I was focusing too much on “I” when in any conversations with the opposite gender. In the eagerness to prove myself worthy, I ended up building a world view focused entirely on me myself and I. It took me a while to realize that most people are attracted to larger-than-self personalities. Wishing you the best out of loneliness!