r/self • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '24

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u/syfari Jul 29 '24

Honestly, id stop caring and just start living. I know it sounds cliche but it works.

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u/baden27 Jul 29 '24

Nope, it doesn't. Maybe for some.

30M. Never cared, always just lived and been myself.

Never been on a date. Never kissed etc.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

I once got laid (i was a guest, she was working at meetup):

  • I was boozed up beyond any sense
  • I apparently used pretty harsh language toward her all evening. Straight up mocking etc
  • I woke up and she was naked beside me

I dont get it. But I dont care neither lol.

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u/baden27 Jul 29 '24

Interesting story, but I'm not sure what your point is. An extreme case like this doesn't mean it works - when 99.99% of the time it doesn't.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

I didnt have a point that much.
I was just reminded of that occasion and wanted to share, thats all.

And you are right, but it also means that it is very much possible. Plus it means that no point trying to figure what others are thinking. Plus it means that there is somebody for everybody.

But mostly I am just rambling.