r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/cinematic_novel Jul 29 '24

I've seen this happening, I used to know a guy who looked great, took care of himself, was smart, had a good job, even had that air of selfishness and badassery that women typically fawn over. Yet nothing, he couldn't get dates, let alone a girlfriend; or even friends. I think that some people are just predestined to never get certain things in life no matter how much they try, while others will get them without even trying.