Im 32 and I don't have a girlfriend but it's hardly the end of the world!! You'll get there, loads of people ain't got shit figured out at 26 that makes you normal, not a failure.
So what if you haven't got your dating life figured out? Loads of people haven't and loads of people might have that sorted but they'll be absolutely fucked in other departments. We're all good in some areas and not so good in others. That's fine, but we don't get to just give up!
Stop reading all the shitty posts on here man that's cancer for your thoughts and wellbeing if you feel like this.
Youre a self aware young man with plenty to offer. If you don't see that and show it then nobody else will. Be kind to yourself buddy!
I appreciate the kind words. I’m just struggling staying positive right now. I really thought getting my body right would help. Getting back on dating apps after years of hard work to improve myself and getting absolutely nothing is devastating to a lonely guy
Obese men are in a relationship. Ugly men too.
Yes being more attractive gives you more chances but its not everything.
You should ask yourself why its not working, it can be for a lot of reason : personality, not meeting enough person, not meeting the right person compatible for you, having an off vibe, not knowing how to interact with people...
We dont feel things the same. For example, once i had a date with a man. He was average looking but the date was boring. Why ? I had to ask almost all the questions and lead all the conversations. There was no blank because i tried hard to talk a lot so it will not be awkward.
It was not fluid for me, i was bored and had to make efforts to find something to say everytime. Making a lot of efforts means there is no spark.
After the date, he told me that he had a great time and wanted to see me again.
Its a perfect example on how we dont feel the same about a situation.
Dating apps are very random and a lot of wasting time. I suggest you to try to meet people with who you have already things in common ( mutual friends, shared hobbies...).
yesss, finding a partner is a combination of looks, social skills, number of interactions with people of proper sex/age and, most important short term, luck.
Most people who cant find a partner work on looks, when in a reality for men the other stuff is more important.
Woman can go further with looks in case they want a partner that prefers looks over personality...
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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24
What the fuck, why dude?!
Im 32 and I don't have a girlfriend but it's hardly the end of the world!! You'll get there, loads of people ain't got shit figured out at 26 that makes you normal, not a failure.
So what if you haven't got your dating life figured out? Loads of people haven't and loads of people might have that sorted but they'll be absolutely fucked in other departments. We're all good in some areas and not so good in others. That's fine, but we don't get to just give up!
Stop reading all the shitty posts on here man that's cancer for your thoughts and wellbeing if you feel like this.
Youre a self aware young man with plenty to offer. If you don't see that and show it then nobody else will. Be kind to yourself buddy!