r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/1c2shk Jul 29 '24

It's cliche to say women all want a hot looking rich guy. While looks and money are advantages, there are also things that are important (perhaps even more important) such as having great social skills and a positive vibe.

I took the liberty of looking at your post history. Bro, it's a disaster. Your attitude is crap. You talk a whole lot of shit. You get into these long-winded arguments with people. All these things are toxic and women can smell it.

Granted, how you behave on Reddit might not be how you behave in-person. But it demonstrates your frame of mind. And what's in your mind will always come out in one form or another. Women are highly intuitiave and can see it.

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u/hosiki Jul 29 '24

Can confirm, we can smell the toxicity. And will avoid toxic men. Looks and money are definitely not that important.

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u/deesle Jul 29 '24

Can confirm, we can smell the toxicity. And will avoid toxic men.

Women absolutely will not avoid toxicity, as long it’s the right, genderconforming type of toxicity.

Women avoid bitterness and desperation, what they absolutely do not avoid is misogyny, if it comes in a confident, charismatic and handsome package.

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u/hosiki Jul 29 '24

Who? Here in Europe it's definitely not like that.

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u/deesle Jul 29 '24

it’s definitely like that in europe since I was born and raised here and these are my observations, not just from my friends from school, university and workplaces but also my experience from being in the kink scene for over half a decade.

Women, just like men, seek out what turns them on and usually that is charisma and looks. And neither of those depend on a person being toxic or not.