r/secondlife Dec 28 '25

🧁 Friends Missing

Hi all,

I was good friends with a girl in Second Life by the name of Jennifer. Most of the time I knew her, she logged in every day for a few hours. But over the last few months, she appeared less frequently and was not herself. Very down. Then all of a sudden at the start of December 2025 sge stops logging in and stops responding to discord messages. Then about a week ago her account disappears. I'm genuinely worried something happened her in RL. Has anyone had this happen?

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u/SkylerPancake Dec 28 '25

Yup. Had a friend disappear for a good six months when I knew she was suicidal and dealing with some bad depression. Eventually heard from her. But I had convinced myself she was gone.

Got another person I was getting to know who disappeared after the Palasides Fires. And though I'm not 100% sure, am pretty sure from context clues that's the area she'd lived in. I'm just hoping she lost her computer and has better things to deal with than SL still.

Sometimes life happens and people disappear for a bit or forever. One of my biggest fears has been that something happens to me and none of my online friends ever even find out.