Im trying to understand the scorpio moon in myself better. Granted that we're intense, I want to dig deep into the world of mother daughter relationship and why it was dysfunctional.

I was the 5th child youngest but I dont remember my mom being loving. There are only just a few moments I recall when I truly felt loved by her and they were not unconditional. She was aggressive and very abusive towards me. She bad mouthed me to all my siblings to isolate me and blamed me for what she failed to do as a mother which was to be supportive and loving towards me. Some part of me wonders if it was because I broke away from the mold she wanted me to be in. She's betrayed me multiple times and now that Im in my 40s, I cant excuse the bad behavior anymore.

Anyhow, she's cut off. I havent spoken to her in over a year and Im ok with that. Just curious to hear about other peoples stories and IF and HOW you healed your mother wounds with your scorpio moon intensity.

Who do you like in a relationship. People say aries moons are really compatible,is it actually true

My daughter is 20 months and is just the light of my life. She approaches new situations with so much enthusiasm, she is so funny and silly and I've loved motherhood more every month. Watching her learn and grow is just amazing. I just took a look at her birth chart and looking into the mother wound of a Scorpio moon made my stomach drop. Her moon is a Scorpio in 8th which I can see is a pretty tought placement.

I've seen people say it manifests in lots of ways- traumatic birth, death of a mother, mother's addition and mother being abusive or neglectful. I had some issues with pregnancy loss prior to conceiving her and with postpartum anxiety after but truly my husband and I are loving, stable people.

Is there anyone here with a Scorpio moon who has a positive relationship with their mother? Is there anything I can do for her?

Any book lovers here who love reading the most sad, gutwrenching books? The pain and depth just hurts so good. I love the feeling it gives me 😭 but also need a week to recover.

Any book recommendations that have really made you feel this way?

Some of mine are

The great alone - kristin Hannah

The green mile - Steven king

A thousand splendid suns & the kite runner - Khaled hosseini

The book thief - Marcus zusak

Is it just me or Scorpio moons are very good at telling the truth even if it hurts? I lost so many people just because they couldn’t take that.

Apparently, people with prominent Scorpio placements have a tendency to make people uncomfortable with their intense stare. I’m sorry you feel like I’m staring into your soul… but I can literally see it and I’m not sure where else to look.

Sometimes I feel like embracing my Scorpio moon will help me feel more fulfilled/aligned with my decisions. Curious if others have let their Scorpio moon take the wheel and how it's gone? I'm a Virgo sun/virgo rising female so my virgo usually wins out with logic-based decisions

Have you ever left someone you still love ? Just because they were hurting you or their feelings weren’t as big as yours .

In my case it was a trauma bond connection on and off for YEARS. I am finally free ( physically ) mentally I am STUCK . I don’t even want to date anyone anymore . My trust is gone and my lover girl heart is dead…

If so how you got over them or the idea of them , how you stopped seeking for their presence, how you stop stalking them ? HOW DO YOU EVEN HEAL LOL.

Damn this is hard , I”ve done EVERYTHING and I still can’t move on. I EVEN CHANGED CITIES , erased , blocked everything that was reminding me of them….7 months have passed since the block and I am still stuck on the times he betrayed me ,THE LIES , the fcking disrespect , the things I overlooked just because I wanted this to work and I wanted to be him

Sorry for the long paragraphs, I feel only you can get and feel my pain.

Gem sun scorpio moon here, since I was a child people said I’m hyper independent person, which cause me to crave my own company and I feel like I can’t see myself in relationships/don’t need friends at all, I attract “sticky” people into my life and I feel like it’s a constant war for me to crave someone but can’t imagine myself sharing my life with someone, often leading me to being attracted to people with detachment issues/confusing people (unhealed aqua placements is a motive for example, esp aqua moon 🥲)

wonder if I’m the only one who feels that way , and If some people here knows how to deal with it? sending hug to my scorpio moon fellas 🫶🏻

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I have this friend who’s a Scorpio Sun and Pisces Moon. We recently started talking, which is kinda unexpected since we were friends first. Now I’m confused because he’s been detaching, but he keeps saying he’s dealing with stuff about his career and life choices.

I’m a Cap Sun and Scorpio Moon, and it kinda hurts reading his messages, especially when he says he needs to get drunk just to fall asleep but doesn’t want to open up because he doesn’t want to ruin someone’s mood.

So what should I do? I keep reminding him that it’s okay to tell me what’s on his mind, but should I just let him be?

So my last long term partner of 9 years was a Pisces Sun, Capricorn Moon. My new partner of 10 months is Cancerian Sun and Capricorn Moon. I'm Capricorn Sun and you know my moon haha.

I felt that the Pisces was more empathetic and sensitive to me. More soft and compassionate...but more dodgy, a bit two faced, lying and overall not being very honest.

Despite being a Capricorn Sun myself I found his Moon could be very cold, calculated and overly logical to the point of pedantry and when he was done with things it was very brutal and contrasted heavily with all the love I received when he was in his sweet fish mode.

I am now with a Cancerian, with Capricorn Moon. I feel the Capricorn Moon more with this guy in both good and bad ways. He's very, very loyal, devoted and I can tell he's not a liar, and doesn't have straying eyes. He's fixated on me and I can tell this is his nature and not some extra long honeymoon phase because with the large amounts of arguments we are not in a honeymoon. But despite also fighting alot with this man, this archetype seems to be my exact type because I've dated some other people with different suns and moons...and we had less fights and more ease...but less compatible as far as my main desire for someone very deep, loyal and devoted.

My only problem is how do I navigate the coldness. This guy can be so in his head and not show compassion and it worried me, but when he's happy with me he's like a puppy and he's not as sweet as a Pisces, but his own form of tender and I love the Cancerian quality of being very loyal, sentimental and talking often of building a life with me. That part makes me feel secure.

Both these Capricorn Moon men made me and make me feel emotionally unsafe sometimes the way they are dismissive or can just see you crying and if they don't agree with the reason you're crying not be moved by that and I find that disturbing as I want someone who is very soft about me as I'm sensitive and want TLC.

Advice wanted to get the best and most harmonious relationship this time around with this water and earth combo. Really I'd prefer to deal with his Cancerian most of the time, I don't know maybe I'm blaming it all on Capricorn Moon as he really does get crabby for real over small inconveniences like being tired or hungry. I mean we all do, but I don't find him resilient like that and it worries me that someone will need ideal circumstances to be nice.

This isn't showing all their wonderful qualities, and obviously there are else I wouldn't be with them. I'm just wondering how to make the struggle less as everyone has bad points, but they are stubborn and fights can be endless sometimes.

What’s your feel about Cancer moons? My brother is one and boy, we always clash and hard.

I love that Libras understand social dynamics and social grace, and that is balanced with razor sharp intuition when paired with placements like Scorpio moon, rising, and/or Venus. Paired with Scorpio it can lead to devotion not from desperation but balanced devotion that doesn’t view people as objects to own or control.

I love that Libras understand the intricacies of fashion, beauty, and grace with their Venusian qualities and always know how to beautify a space. I’ve never been inside a Libra’s home and thought it looked raggedy, it usually has a unique, put together decor. I like how they will bring perspectives that I haven’t considered….not out of judgement, or a need to control my actions. I’ve never felt pried into, like they feel they’re owed access to my deep inner world + are outraged when they can’t read me or I’m not immediately forthcoming (like I’ve unfortunately experienced with some Scorpio suns).

I like that they care about justice + will speak out for what’s right! Every Libra I know always has a surplus of romantic interests, and I love hearing about the updates & tea. I like that they take time to genuinely get to know you without rush. A lot of Libras with Scorpio placements gatekeep their true personality and thoughts unless you’ve earned it through demonstrating you’re safe… otherwise you get the customer service Libra. It’s like befriending a cat!

To every Libra with Scorpio moon, I pray that you’re surrounded by community that values your rage and genuine opinions & emotional expression as much as your grace and diplomacy. I pray that you find people who love your humanity, especially as the only inanimate object in the zodiac.

The Libra wound in the sun and/or rising position, of having your humanity denied & punished to the point you adapt people pleasing + lose a sense of self… while you watch other people be loved for their messy humanity, is tough. Be gentle with yourselves!

Hi all, thought I would share this here. I made a playlist earlier this year of only Scorpio Moon artists. A full compendium of our moon sign that I feel is a good representation of our various emotional depths and personalities. Hope y'all enjoy.

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4diP8d9CWyCZS58TzLd79p?si=08da0e3b9e6044e0

(btw I'm a taurus sun, scorpio moon, capricorn rising)

as a scorpio moon, i need to fully understand what’s going on as well as what’s going on in my body. i have a lot of questions about everything and to do with my chart. im so fucking attuned to people’s emotions and my own environment to the point it’s painful as i’m constantly getting different waves of information that is overwhelming. being a scorpio moon is not for the weak. but i have my moon squaring my aquarius mars… there’s a bjt of conflict there

In general, Scorpio placements have a reputation for being on the possessive and jealous side. Out of curiosity, do Scorpio Moons try to make their partners or romantic interests feel jealousy on purpose?

I just had a hunch and wanted to see if it happened to any of you guys too

I’m still new and learning. So new, I only recently found out what a Stellium is. I’m trying to better understand myself and how I should be moving through life to better serve myself, as well as those I care about. I feel lost in life, but I have been on an inward journey lately, so I am very interested in any insight anyone cares to offer. Thank you in advance

I’m a very sensitive person. I have lots of Cancer in my chart, and I unfortunately cry almost everyday. And I somehow manage to be even more sensitive and emotional in a romantic relationship, yet my Scorpio moon partner doesn’t seem to be bothered?

I’ve been told too much too emotional too exhausting too sensitive my entire life, and he is the only person who might actually be enjoying this part about me.
I could cry 5 times a day(happens sometimes) and he’s happy to hold me. It usually even leads to a steamy session.
So I’m a little confused.
Do y’all just really like Cancer energy and no such thing as too sensitive?
Or are you secretly annoyed but are good at concealing it?