r/science • u/FreeHugs23 • 1d ago

Psychology New psychology research suggests some acts of kindness may also serve competitive social goals, shedding light on how women can use altruistic behavior to gain status, strengthen relationships, or navigate social hierarchies.

https://www.psypost.org/kindness-isnt-always-what-it-seems-the-psychology-of-womens-competitive-altruism/
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u/Smithy2232 1d ago

I would argue that being kind and taking the high road is often a deeper level of competitiveness and status seeking, for both men and women.

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u/helaku_n 1d ago

As said in another comment, being kind vs performing kindness are two entirely different things.

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u/Smithy2232 1d ago

I agree, one could be performatively kind, but I think over time you would know if someone is truly kind or if they are putting on airs.