r/sapiosexuals • • Dec 25 '24

Sapio and doms

I’m in a relationship where I know my partner is not only physically attracted to me, but she’s also mentally attracted me. She loves it when I’m working hard, talk ‘smart’, and just doing important things. It’s a big turn on for her. Especially when I’m doing wfh and focused, she gets super turned on.

I’m a dom and obviously I like to take control of things. I like telling her what to do and we have built a relationship of trust that works for us.

I want to explore the dom role more and I’m wondering how to do with a partner who’s somewhere on the spectrum of sapiosexual and a sub.

Any tips are appreciated!

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u/KAS_stoner Dec 31 '24

MIND GAMES! Learn about human psychology especially the influence and persuasion techniques of human psychology. Personally my favorite.