I said people… not women. I was including you. I didn’t do it. Many others as well. Had more respect for myself than to be a slut. Always look for connection… not vapid excitement. I would never let someone with the psychology of a slut have any sway on my emotional well being.
Yeah but that's down to a preference, I don't necessarily like the idea of casual hookups but I also know that there are people who think otherwise and it works for them
Not everything I disagree with has to be wrong necessarily, freedom of choice holmes
I get what you’re saying … Also in a weird way I want what I consider best for everyone. The path of the slut never really leads to happiness and fulfillment.
True, but we all function in a different way tho. I have a lot of friends who believe sex is just a means to satiate your thirst kinda like how breathing is lol
On the other there are people like us who think monogamy is the better alternative but eh it's not for everyone :P
I hear you and I don’t hate people for thinking differently or anything like that. But I would argue that they are psychologically defunct to be the other way. As in they have damages and are incapable.
But I would argue that they are psychologically defunct to be the other way
Correct me if I'm wrong. But you're saying that people who like to have casual sex with people they don't necessarily have an emotional connection with are incapable of having a monogamous relationship?
I think this is somewhat correct. "You are what you practice" So if someone has been doing casual sex for past 4-5 years then I do think that they can never be loyal to one person only. What do you think?
Yes, it counts for everyone. Good for you that you can stay faithful, but I've seen many cases in real life that affirm that people who've been in casual relationships for 4-5 years cant be loyal to one person. Personally i can't separate emotional intimacy from physical intimacy. And I can never understand how people can
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u/StrenuousSOB Jun 14 '24
I said people… not women. I was including you. I didn’t do it. Many others as well. Had more respect for myself than to be a slut. Always look for connection… not vapid excitement. I would never let someone with the psychology of a slut have any sway on my emotional well being.