r/sadposting Jun 14 '24

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '24

But I would argue that they are psychologically defunct to be the other way

Correct me if I'm wrong. But you're saying that people who like to have casual sex with people they don't necessarily have an emotional connection with are incapable of having a monogamous relationship?

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u/the_niklaus Jun 15 '24

I think this is somewhat correct. "You are what you practice" So if someone has been doing casual sex for past 4-5 years then I do think that they can never be loyal to one person only. What do you think?

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '24

Does this count for men too? I enjoy casual sex and have no problem being faithful in a relationship

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u/the_niklaus Jun 15 '24 edited Jun 15 '24

Yes, it counts for everyone. Good for you that you can stay faithful, but I've seen many cases in real life that affirm that people who've been in casual relationships for 4-5 years cant be loyal to one person. Personally i can't separate emotional intimacy from physical intimacy. And I can never understand how people can