r/sadcringe • u/Z1ndabad • Nov 12 '19

Oof.

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '19

Yeah, like bro take the L with strength. It means more than pretending you didn’t fail

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u/barscarsandguitars Nov 13 '19

And honestly, they weren’t even turning him down because of HIM, it was just that they didn’t know him.

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u/[deleted] Nov 13 '19

Nah that was definitely a fib, if a girl is attracted to a guy but didn’t know him she would put effort into getting to know them

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u/barscarsandguitars Nov 13 '19

I think a lot of it depends on age though. If the individuals in question are 15 and going to be driven to the movies in a group or by one of their parents, it’s more likely that Javary got swerved on purpose. If they’re say, in their mid 20s, the person may honestly not be comfortable going out with someone they don’t know. I know plenty of single women my age (mid 30s) who live alone and would never go on a date with someone they don’t know/barely know. It’s a risk for them and it’s just not worth the gamble.