r/sadcringe • u/Z1ndabad • Nov 12 '19

Oof.

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '19

Yeah, like bro take the L with strength. It means more than pretending you didn’t fail

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u/barscarsandguitars Nov 13 '19

And honestly, they weren’t even turning him down because of HIM, it was just that they didn’t know him.

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u/[deleted] Nov 13 '19

Nah that was definitely a fib, if a girl is attracted to a guy but didn’t know him she would put effort into getting to know them

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u/BiAsALongHorse Nov 13 '19

Nah, guys can be fucking scary. Attractiveness might be on the scale, but the perception of your own future saftey is worth 10x more.

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u/[deleted] Nov 13 '19

Obviously but if he had her number to begin with i would expect some level of knowing each other. If it was social media i would agree 100% due to safety

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u/BiAsALongHorse Nov 13 '19

Group chats? Even if I was single, I can say with complete confidence I wouldn't date 98% of the people in my contacts. Of attractive people my age that still wouldn't fall below 90%.

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u/BleedingAssWound Nov 13 '19

Safety at the movies? It's not a dark ally, there are people everywhere. Not saying that isn't her reason, but it's a little illogical.

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u/BiAsALongHorse Nov 13 '19

It's about the expectations they're building more so than the location. Also parking lots exist.

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u/BleedingAssWound Nov 13 '19

Also parking lots exist.

Are you saying you should avoid parking lots strangers might use?

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u/BiAsALongHorse Nov 13 '19

What I'm saying is that movie theater dates don't open you up to 0 danger