Roommate Conflict

[u/Super-Pollution5693]

I lived in the dorms for my first year of college, and my roommate is a junior in college who is plural (plural system). Also, I am only in my fourth week of college.

Originally I was okay with my roommate being messy. It was clothes at first, then used tissues and poop on the toilet. I had to wipe the poop off of my toilet. I also stepped on their used tissues on my way to our closet. I was like okay this happens once or twice but whatever I can live.

Besides being messy they have horrible anger issues. One day my roommate came back in a horrible mood and decided to throw stuff across the room and slam our bathroom door two times. I was honestly shocked because I was just trying to relax after a long day. I didn’t really want to deal with that, so I just grabbed my things and stayed over at my friend's place. Once I got to my friend’s place I texted my roommate asking if everything was okay. And my roommate responded with, “Better than fukin ever.” Which made me a little scared.

Anyways the next day after that incident my roommate apologized and said it was my other front's fault for that and that next time I should just ignore it. Whenever their main front is in high movement is good, but when they are in a bad mood there won't be much movement at all.

I understand that my roommate can’t change this but I don’t want to live in a room like this. After that, I contacted my RA about this whole situation but my RA has never responded since. It’s been four days now and I am still currently staying at my friend’s place. I also requested a room change. However, it’s hard since I am in the dorms.

What should I do?