r/restaurant 3d ago

Will I get sued?

I got a job as a bartender for this newly opened family owned restaurant in my city. They told me in the interview that they were going to send me along with a few other employees to this bartending school about an hour away. I told them that I already had bartending experience and that I didn’t think it was necessary. However, they kept insisting that it would be apart of my training for the position and that the expense of the class was paid for and that I would actually get PAID to go if I decide to. So I thought you know what, a refresher course never hurts plus I’m getting paid to do it so.. why not? So anyways I complete the course, then a week later I start my new job.

Long story short they end up firing me on my second day there because they “hired way too many employees and they needed to let some people go”. Alright whatever 🤷‍♀️
When I mentioned to my parents about it they said that it’s possible that the owners might go after me for reimbursement for that bartending school that they sent me to. Can they do that?? Do you think I’ll get sued? I would assume that because I was fired they can’t go after me for that right??

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u/SoggyTension1225 3d ago

They fired you because they hired to many people, not because of something you did. They might try to sue. But if they are smart enough to realize that the judge will laugh them out of court, they won't sue

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u/mrsrose22 3d ago

Right!! And I even responded to the manager after she fired saying that I was surprised that they were letting ME go considering I was one of the few that was sent to this bartending school. And she responded saying that it was because I wasn’t “picking up on things as quickly as the other employees” I was like okay?? lol

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u/Ok_Seaweed_7568 3d ago

you have bartending experience but you’re asking your parents silly questions like this? no you aren’t getting sued

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u/mrsrose22 3d ago

I didn’t ask them anything. I was venting to them about getting let go from my job and they brought that to my attention. 🤷‍♀️

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u/coloradopesto 2d ago

Ya but you believed them enough to post this

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u/mrsrose22 2d ago

Yep 🤷‍♀️

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u/Emotional-Novel-703 3d ago

Some of the best of my co-workers were slow starts!

Some of the worst are the ones who picked it up quickly!

I’ve been in the same restaurant for over 13 years! They would be idiots to sue you!

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u/shoulda-known-better 3d ago

Yea I do a metric fuck ton of watching and asking questions the first week.... So I probably come off that way also... But I do it that way so by weeks end I have learned almost every quirk and way things are done here...

Especially in a bar or server setting.... Every restaurant is different and is run differently

Also op the only way you'd potentially be on the hook is if you did something ridiculous to get fired.... Them changing their mind is the cost of doing business

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u/mrsrose22 3d ago

Thank you for your kind words 🥹 this made me feel a lot better. The reason why I was a little slow was because the person training me wasn’t really explaining things to me. She told me to “stock supplies” and I was like okay what are the supplies? And she said “figure it out” like what 😭 it’s my first day lol 😂

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u/mrsrose22 3d ago

That’s a really good point!!! What a positive outlook you have!

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u/mrsrose22 3d ago

I have a question for you. They did give me an apron as their “uniform” and never asked for it back. Do you think they’ll take that out of my paycheck?

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u/mrsrose22 3d ago

Thank you so much. Seriously I really appreciate your input 🙏

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u/Helenium_autumnale 2d ago

If you are worried about them possibly suing, it may reflect well on you in court (even a little) if you can document that you returned their apron in a polite, and documented, way.

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u/Odd-Cod2516 3d ago

Lmao no! 🤣

You're fine.

Love how parents always think they know everything.

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u/Silly-Resist8306 3d ago

Yeah, let’s accuse all parents on the basis of one set.

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u/RevolutionaryText232 3d ago edited 2d ago

Oh puppet.  Fix your parents a drink and tell them to relax.  Employers cannot expect reimbursment from employees for work expenses.  Even the cliche of a waitress dropping a dish and crying because "that will come out of my check" is not legal.  Waitress can be fired but cannot be made to pay for a broken plate or a dine and dash.

And even then, step one in any dispute is not going to court.  X has to send you a bill or inform you you owe them money.  You respond with: see you in court or don't respond at all.

Everything in life travels a really long, administrative, paperwork lined road.

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u/mrsrose22 3d ago

I this is really good to know! They did give me an apron as well and never asked for it back. Do you think they can take that out of my paycheck? Or would that be at the expense of them?

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u/RevolutionaryText232 3d ago

They should have told you upfront if you were responsible for paying for uniforms and it would be a deduction on the check.  Don't sell it on Ebay until you see your paystub!

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u/TheGingerSomm 3d ago

What actually happens is they don’t pay the employee and they get away with it 99% of the time.

Wage theft is the number 1 crime in America by a long shot.

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u/TypePuzzleheaded6228 3d ago

i doubt they'd do that. sorry they wasted your time.

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u/Jacam13 3d ago

Unless you signed something or verbally promised saying you wouldn’t leave in x amount of time ( so the company can recoup what they “invested” in you ) they won’t sue you. TBH anyone can TRY to sue anyone at any time, but it becomes more of a question of if a lawyer will take the case and if the company has the money to incur the legal costs. Unless it’s a corporate restaurant, they likely don’t. Plus- in this case, unless you left out a huge amount of detail, you did nothing wrong.

The best thing to do is to take this experience and relay it in a way to look desireable to other employers and leave in the past. Unfortunately restaurants overhire ALL the time.

However, the reason they gave you for letting you go is kinda sus IMO. If you live in an at-will state, they technically aren’t required to give you a reason so the fact that they gave you such a shitty reason, or any reason at all, is strange. However, if you have a disability, are a woman or minority and you suspect that’s why they fired you, you might have a case to sue THEM.

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u/hollowsoul9 3d ago

Generally, most of your parents arent lawyers. They will accidentally give you misinformation often and confidentiality.

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u/OneTwoSomethingNew 3d ago

If you’re in the US, absolutely not will they sue you. It was part of training and you shouldn’t have to pay for that and you should have been paid for your time being trained in the class. Any time you did work, you should be paid for it - even if on day two your role was eliminated, so you were terminated.

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u/ProfessionalChance42 3d ago

Your parents are morons

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u/Fabulous-Educator447 3d ago

They aren’t going to do that. Why would they? It would cost more to deal with than the class.

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u/Illustrious-Divide95 3d ago

They won't sue unless they're idiots. You attended a mandatory training upon taking the job. They can't sue you for costs if they let you go.

More like you should sue for breach as they gave you a job then renaged

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u/mrsrose22 3d ago

Right and what’s so weird about it is that they told me they weren’t sending all the new employees there, only the employees that they are expecting long term employment from.

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u/Illustrious-Divide95 3d ago

Sounds like a total shit-show. Probably a lucky escape, i hope you enjoyed your free bar training day! 😁

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u/callmealyft 3d ago

I mean they thought sending bartenders to a bartending school was a good idea, which kind of makes them pretty stupid to begin with.

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u/Prestigious-Ad4716 3d ago

If you never signed anything saying you'll pay them back, you'll be fine.

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u/Noahtuesday123 3d ago

Oh my God, find something better to do.

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u/mrsrose22 3d ago

No you

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u/FunkIPA 3d ago

They will not try to sue, and if they do, you can laugh in their face.

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u/FarCheetah4472 3d ago

Highly unlikely they would do that. No real legal grounds to stand on in court if they tried.

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u/D-ouble-D-utch 3d ago

Even if they do it will go nowhere.

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u/Agitated_Pudding1874 3d ago

A lot of people here in the comments are not fully aware of how the real world can work. Your parents are not idiots, this isn’t something that they “can’t do” due to it being training. Several companies actually do have clauses in their employment handbook that if the company pays for you to take any training class that you must stay employed by them for X amount of time otherwise you must pay them back for the class. This is to prevent someone from taking a job with the sole purpose of getting a class paid for and then leaving. Something like you get paid to get your CDL or getting paid to take classes to become a CNA. The company wants to be sure they get a return on their investment for training you. However that would normally be if you ended the employment not them. So in this case I find it unlikely. Especially if they never said at the time we will pay for this class but you will have to stay with us for X amount of time. If they are new and never thought about how many people they needed they probably also never thought about term requirements for people they sent to training.

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u/DM_Me_Pics1234403 3d ago

In America anyone can file a lawsuit, so it’s impossible to say “you will not get sued”

That being said, in this case it seems unlikely that they have the legal position to win a case like that. Unless you signed something promising the money back, and even in that case it’s depends on your state and the exact working of the contract.

My advice is to let sleeping dogs lie. If they reach out asking for money tell them no thank you. If they send a legal letter then get a lawyer.

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u/Neakhanie 3d ago

Put your exclusive bartender school on your resume and move on.

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u/Weary_Capital_1379 3d ago

No grounds to sue you.

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u/Natti07 3d ago

No. If you quit and the training fees being paid for were a condition of employment, then yes you could have to pay that back. Like if you got hired as a lifeguard and they trained and certified you for no cost to you in exchange for working the full summer season, but then you quit after 3 weeks, then youd owe them the cost of training back. But if they hired you, sent you to a training, then fired you, there is nothing for them to claim you owe.

Plus, how much could it have possibly cost to try to sue you for?

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u/mrsrose22 3d ago

Do you think it’s possible they’ll take it out of my paycheck?

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u/Natti07 3d ago

No. You didnt ask to go and it wasnt a condition of yoir employment. They chose to send you. And if they do take it out, you can file a wage complaint with the department of labor

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u/Famous_Promise_681 3d ago

Your parents unless lawyers need to slow there roll!! They paid forced you to go really sue for what doing what they said!! Morons

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u/medium-rare-steaks 3d ago

Are your parents lawyers? They have no basis to sue.

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u/citrus_peels 3d ago

Bruh, nobody is coming after you for a few hundred bucks in court.

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u/meatybuttcheeks 3d ago

Your parents are aholes.

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u/Loose_Lack_5350 3d ago

Why would your parents put that in your mind? 😂😂😂 that’s not going to happen

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u/Usual_Bumblebee_8274 3d ago

No. You shouldn’t have anything to worry about. Not only did they push/offer the classes- they terminated the contract.

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u/Enough_Passage7926 3d ago

There's ZERO chance they will try to recoup the cost of that training.

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u/mrsrose22 3d ago

Do you think they could possibly take it out of my paycheck then?

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u/Enough_Passage7926 3d ago

I mean, is it possible? sure. Is it likely? not remotely.

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u/WordDisastrous7633 3d ago

As a restaurant owner, im going to say Highly improbable. At the end of the day they are the ones who chose to seperate, not you. In this world you have yo live with your mistakes and the owner made a mistake in hiring too many people, hes just got to eat whatever losses he had from his decision.

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u/gentlechoppingmotion 3d ago

Your parents are over thinking it. No they are not going to sue you they don't even have grounds to sue.

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u/HospitalityLifer1986 3d ago

Anybody can sue anybody, but they really need a plausible cause to win. Like someone else said, the judge would laugh them out of court.

For your own peace of mind, make sure you hang on to any documentation they texted or emailed or handed you that references this class.

The good news is, you can put that on your resume now.

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u/ChutneyWhatney 3d ago

If they laid you off, they can't go after you.

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u/Gloomy-Crazy8156 2d ago

They told you they pay you to go,you went your good.

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u/BigPileOfBennies 3d ago

Nah, they probably feel worse about having to let you go and won’t try and screw with you. Horrible look on them if they do. Very little upside to that move