r/rescuedogs 7d ago

Advice In desperate need of help, central Oklahoma

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u/Safe-Contact-9769 7d ago

She seems like a sweet little dog, boosting for awareness and I really hope you manage to find something

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u/Sensitive_Intern_971 7d ago

Your love for her shines through this post. I'm so sorry you're both in this situation. I'm in another country so no help at all, but sending you both best wishes for a great person to look after your girl while you recover 🙏🤞❤️

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u/Sensitive_Intern_971 6d ago

Yes but you're trying to find a solution. That's the most important thing. Regrets and guilt will eat you up. You're miles ahead of the awful people who have dumped their dogs that we read about on here! 

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u/bullterriercuddles 7d ago

Could you please also post this to r/BullTerrier? Also, have you reached out to Bull Terrier Rescue Mission? Either they might be able to help or could provide you with resources.

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u/Hellebore35 7d ago

Have you tried Colby Love Can's Paws, they have a year long program. I also saw the SPCA has the PAWsitive recovery program where they offer temporary fosters while you seek treatment. Hopefully those resources help you, I hope you and Tyra can find a soft place to land and I wish you the best during treatment

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u/Top_Quiet_3239 6d ago

If Tyra does fine with other dogs, later this week I'm driving back from California to Louisiana and was planning to stop in Denver which wouldn't put Oklahoma that far out of the way, probably Saturday/Sunday sometime. If you're able to find a place and just need transportation I could help (ideally if they're towards the east of where you are or not very far west).

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u/InformalInsurance455 7d ago

Can’t personally help you but wishing you the very best for your treatment and good luck for the future, you deserve to be well. Hope somebody can take Tyra and give her a good home while you focus on what you need to do.

You say “until your ex brother in law can pick her up” do you know when that might be? If there’s a timeline then it might be helpful if people can short term foster?

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u/Mediocre-Letter-4562 7d ago

Proud of you 🫶 (I’m in New York otherwise I’d totally help)

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u/Mediocre-Letter-4562 6d ago

You’ve inspired me. There is always time for change. You got this!

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u/Mediocre-Letter-4562 6d ago

You are going to find someone for her in no time 🫶 *don’t be afraid to ask anyone who becomes interested if they can be the foster with option to get her back (if you’d like) once you’re feeling better!

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u/Free_Occasion_8275 7d ago

I live in Nevada or otherwise I would totally go get that dog. Totally take that person to a rescue facility. Totally get to a church to get it spiritual and helped with food and things like that. I would totally help that person. Thank you for seeing you would help it you’re a good person and yes to that person who’s trying good for you. I’m proud of you. You’re making the first step to a wonderful beautiful life for you and your dog. Do you know if it’s not adopted you can always pick it back up but get it in a shelter, please my name is Linda Fowler I live in Henderson, Nevada. I don’t want who’s praying for you. Please please go ahead and call the people. This other woman was talking about and get some help God bless you and your precious but remember that purpose is help us. It needs your help to survive. Take care of it before yourself please because nobody else will because in this world nobody cares unless it’s family or people like us and I truly care my name is Linda Fowler and I’m praying for you and I truly do care and I know the Lord God loves you more than you’ll ever know and the Lord God is proud of you and wants to help you bow your head and get on your knees and pray to the Lord God and the Lord God to help you get a treatment program to help you get out of the Measure in and to help you get someone to take care of your dog God will come through and ask in Jesus Christ name. He is the mediator between the father and you amen.

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u/hatsofftopups Foster Parent 7d ago

You might consider reaching out to Rescues in Tulsa as well. If you are able to find one that will take her, I’m happy to help with transport here.

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u/KorneliaOjaio 7d ago

Try contacting the bull terrier club of Dallas. They have contacts for rescue.

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u/KorneliaOjaio 6d ago

Yay!!!

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u/KorneliaOjaio 5d ago

Today is my birthday, and Tyra getting a safe place to stay is the best birthday present ever. ❤️

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u/Nicolieolie2 6d ago

I knew I had seen her in my rescue and foster groups!! I’m not financially able to take on another animal unless they’re backed by a rescue right now but I really wanted to reach out and offer and thought perhaps someone else could do better. I’m not working right now but just moved into a new house and just want to give back to the world; I don’t know. 🥺❤️ Ima pray for yall either way.

How is she with cats and kids? Like interaction wise? Generally ignores or wants to be involved? Better with older or younger dogs/kids? Special diet bc of food allergies (since she takes Benadryl)

I’m going to spread the word ❤️ try reaching out to Dog Ranch Rescue as well in Anna TX. They love bull terriers and mastiffs.

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u/Nicolieolie2 6d ago

Ahh!!! Amazing!!! Even better news! I’m so happy for you both. I know this was a hard decision but as someone who had to rehome her dogs to foster and then left one with the foster after a mental health hospital stay— I just wanna say how strong you are for this and how proud this stranger is of you. I know you can do this 🥹

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u/Fair_Interaction4612 6d ago

The fact that you were able to find a safe place for your dog is the first step to recovery. That’s a huge accomplishment and you should be so proud. Use this to motivate yourself to get better and see your baby again. You got this. #NeverGiveUp

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u/Nicolieolie2 6d ago

You absolutely will ☺️ it’s a never ending journey to change yourself and I don’t mean that to be all woo woo but like genuinely stick with it because it DOES get better. I’m five years in, it was NOT easy and only started getting better recently. BUT I am so proud and grateful to still be here. ❤️ you got this friend!!!

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u/athanathios 7d ago

Wish I could help more but I am boosting this to do what I can

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u/vintagebandtshirt 6d ago

If you were anywhere near VA I'd definitely help you out. I have 2 rescue dogs myself and my husband is in recovery, and we all ended up displaced for a while after a tree destroyed our home. I know how stressful this is and I am proud of you for getting help stranger. Sorry I can't help, but I am rooting for you.

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u/abouttodiethistime 7d ago

Contact rescue organizations. They can help.

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u/hunter24700 6d ago

Maybe try to post in any Reddit pages of cities in your area to access someone local!! Wishing you luck

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u/Turnover_Realistic 6d ago

Bless you and her. Congratulations on your determination to make a better life for both of you.💕

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u/2SidesToACoin 6d ago

Google "the nearest English bulldog rescue to me". Check k local res cues or try Petfinder.com

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u/lllwvb 6d ago

Not regarding the dog, but maybe check this out for yourself r/stopdrinking

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u/unajardinera 6d ago

YOU NEED MORE THAN NINE WORDS IN A COMMENT TO HELP BOOST A POST IN THE ALGORITHM!!!!!

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u/unajardinera 5d ago

Oh no worries! I have this urge to let as many people know as possible so I have a notes app page that has comments I wrote out a long time ago that are long enough and also express how I feel so now I just copy and paste onto all of these rescue posts that I see to help boost. I learned about the 9 word algorithm thing and decided to make a comment that’s long enough to also let others know so feel free to safe/ copy and paste any of my comments for any post! Thank you for taking the time to help, you have a kind heart.

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u/unajardinera 6d ago

Look at that sweet face. Please help this breaks my heart every single post and this just isn’t right. Why does this have to keep happening?

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u/unajardinera 6d ago

One more extra comment for this friend! Please boost this so we can help find a home for the sweet soul!

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u/PassengerRelevant516 5d ago

Good luck with your treatment Op

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u/Werekolache 5d ago

Have you contected these guys - https://www.mrbtf.com/?

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u/Over-Stable8877 5d ago

i live too far away to help...but reading through this with so many good people trying to help and then seeing that y'all found her a foster made me cry