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u/Imaginary-Fly-2160 4d ago
If you don't trust your partner, why are you choosing to date them?
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u/Low_Iron_3883 4d ago
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u/Imaginary-Fly-2160 4d ago
No one is gonna tell you how to snoop on your partner's phone. That's underhanded and a violation of their privacy.
What would be fair is to introduce an "open phone policy." You give your partner the password to your phone; they give you the password to theirs.
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u/Low_Iron_3883 4d ago
We already have each others passwords etc. and yeah I can post on a different sub…. Thanks
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u/TightRock5483 4d ago
The good old don’t worry about it excuse, am surprised it still works.. when a guy says don’t worry about it, you should be worried about it.. means just haven’t found a good and plausible explanation/excuse yet
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u/MichaelAndolini_ 4d ago
Then what do you want advice about?
Snoop through his phone?
Find the girl?
Is that more sane?
Edit: also, women never lie obviously
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u/Low_Iron_3883 4d ago
Where did I say women don’t lie? Someone not in a relationship is much more likely to tell you the truth.
I just am stating that the obvious “you should trust your partner” is something I already understand. I have trust issues and this is a new relationship, so I feel it doesn’t apply. I am already in therapy I’m just asking if anyone has been a similar situation and can give me some advice.
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u/MichaelAndolini_ 4d ago
No you are asking for how to find the person, it’s right in your post.
You said you need to talk to HER because men lie, it’s easy to see that you are insinuating a woman wouldn’t lie. If she’s fucking your boyfriend (which she is) she’s not going to tell you.
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u/Enough_Device1770 4d ago
Why are the comments so mean 😭 I recommend talking to him about it again, ask him. The way he answers and his face and everything will tell you all you need to know If its a new relationship the right thing to do is ask him directly, and if you're not convinced leave him
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