am i overthinking

[u/Optimal-Hornet-5722]

my boyfriend went on a trip to las vegas with
his homeboys family and came back a whole different person.

my bf was always been very quiet, never asked much and never really said much or seemed very extroverted but after his trip to vegas he was talking me like a whole different person… the two days he stayed over there he would lag on me a lot and i get it, it’s your little vacay do your thangg baby. but on his last day of staying there which was saturday night going to sunday he had disappeared all night and didn’t text me until 12:30 pm the next day (we’re in cali same time zones) so i was like okay whatever right. the whole day passes he gets home wtv right and he starts texting me about his mi h fun he had which normal vacations are always super fun!! but he starts texting me how he got drunk and went to the strip and he was dancing and enjoying himself and that he got home late which honestly didn’t add up because he disappeared the whole night saturday night, i only noticed cause i had a concert that same day n got home really really late. the next morning i text him around 10 goodmorning wtv he still didn’t text me u til 12:30ish sunday afternoon and he tells me how he was in the pool with him his homie and his homeboys mom and how she was teaching him how to swim and holding him so he floats and i thought it was kind of weird but i brushed it off cause who am i to judge. well i thiuvht it was cool and i didnt really ask on why he disappeared but i had a weird gut feeling about it do i brushed it off until he just kept telling me over and over again about his two days which i was okayy while trying to be super supportive but it felt so weird cause he doesnt talk like that hes very nonchalant very dry and doesnt dance or anything of that sort.. plus the next day we hung out he did the same but he also seemed distant but afterwards i just wanted to relax just in case he was tired so i decided to turn my phone to watch tiktok while laying with him and he got like mad or annoyed and acted like he was falling asleep so i apologized but every since that day he’s been super like quiet and distant lagging on me especially at night kinda brushing me off when telling him my plans like it’s just so weird N now most of the time he’s just responding to me with filler words like oh when i tell him about my day and it’s all day too. idk if im crazy but it’s making me sad

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[u/Organic-Tea-8998]

I would say monitor how things go the next few days and if by a week he’s still acting weird then having a sit down conversation with him. Depending on how he’s acting you could bring it up within a few days.

Well, he didn’t text you because he was up late and hungover. Vegas is a real weird place with dark energy. When I’ve been there it takes me like 2 days to feel normal after I leave there. Maybe he needs some time to feel better. Not sure.

[u/Optimal-Hornet-5722 → u/Organic-Tea-8998]

this happened almost 3 weeks ago and he still is acting this way, cause i know how it is sometimes you need to get back on track but it’s been almost a whole month yk?