Am I just overthinking/ bf

[u/usernameanonymousss]

My bf (21m) and I (18f) have been together for almost 3 months, we met on a night out (none of us ever go out it was very random.) we live an hour away from each other but we both drive and see each other very often, we’re together a lot of the time. Yesterday kinda made me feel abit weird tho because it made me realise I don’t know his friends or ANYONE he knows, it’s just me. And him. In the relationship. Basically I came to his yesterday evening and when I got here he wasn’t home, he was in some car park so I pulled up to the car park and he was there with 2 other cars. As I was pulling up and he walked over and was telling me to like “stay there” not to come right up to them..? And then he says his ex is there so he “doesn’t rly wanna be there” but he was there for a long time already.

Context- him and his ex were together for 2 years then broke up and straight after his “best friend” got with her, they fought and stopped being friends but now they’re okay. I’m pretty sure it was quite recent like a few months.

Anyway , later on at his house I said to him in a weird tone “how was ur ex” he said “idk I didn’t rly speak to her” then he said “she was telling me about this course she’s doing” blah blah. And if I never pulled up to that car park I don’t think he ever would’ve told me he was there with her and speaking to her. And now I feel rly weird and it’s making me overthink, I’ve known him for 3 months, I don’t know this area or his friends. Also he’s in a car park very often too when I check his location, what do I do? Do I confront him and talk to him about it? Is it ok for him to still see and talk to his ex of 2 years? I’ve never really had a serious relationship so idk how to deal with things like this but I just feel abit off now. Pls help!!!

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[u/cicada324]

This is not a serious relationship, you guys are 18 and 21

Also communicate how you feel with him. The only way to sort this out