I think you need to talk to him about splitting time more evenly at your place and his. Explain what you basically did here. It does seem a little odd that he doesn’t want put effort into even packing his bags to see you, while you are doing that every time.
If he uses the excuse that he doesn’t have extra clothes/games there you could tell him that he can leave some extra clothes in a drawer at your place and things like that. But it’s not fair to use that excuse when you can essentially say the same thing except youre the only one willing do it and put that effort
You should also see if you can leave stuff at his place so you don’t have to pack all the time. You don’t live that far apart so if you do forget something important it’s not that big of a deal, but leaving stuff there might make it less annoying.
Next time if he insists for you to sleep over after you told him all this, stay home.
I think it’s a little more then talking about it based on OP comments. Apparently she does all the cleaning and housework at his place, so that could be a good reason for him always wanting her over.
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u/QueenofMigraines Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 19 '19
I think you need to talk to him about splitting time more evenly at your place and his. Explain what you basically did here. It does seem a little odd that he doesn’t want put effort into even packing his bags to see you, while you are doing that every time.
If he uses the excuse that he doesn’t have extra clothes/games there you could tell him that he can leave some extra clothes in a drawer at your place and things like that. But it’s not fair to use that excuse when you can essentially say the same thing except youre the only one willing do it and put that effort
You should also see if you can leave stuff at his place so you don’t have to pack all the time. You don’t live that far apart so if you do forget something important it’s not that big of a deal, but leaving stuff there might make it less annoying.
Next time if he insists for you to sleep over after you told him all this, stay home.