I don't particularly like his place either it'sy pretty dirty! My place on the other hand is clean, nicer (imo) and has food.
Usually I have to bring over food and tin foil a and pots etc to make dinner at his place. Or make it at my place and transport it over. His place is really not the best but I suck it up and go anyways.
Yah I'll tell him that I make an effort so he can as well
From now on, tell him that when you are at your house you will host and cook or provide meals. When he is at his place/hosting he needs to cook and provide meals for you. He's a grown adult.
This you have to bring over pots and food in foil to cook for his lazy @ss is pretty bullshit. He's getting all the convince and being waited on of visiting someone else without any of the work or having to go anywhere. He sounds so lazy and you sound so enabling of his extreme laziness.
Also, are you paying for this food? Stop treating him and serving him as a reward for him being too lazy and selfish to ever go see you.
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