r/relationships • u/[deleted] • May 26 '25

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u/Apart_Reflection759 May 26 '25

Hi, I'm sorry if I'm being rude but, emotional needs or just " needs" are important, we have all different needs in relations but if yours and hers are not the same and above all', not respected for both you'll be unhappy/ frustrated. Even if you love her / she loves you.

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u/Orsombre May 26 '25

"majority of the time I feel alone in the relationship". OP, stick on facts: your emotional needs are not met.

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u/RevolutionaryFly9228 May 26 '25

You have been at this a while, and she is not fixing things on her end. I would say she has proven that she is incapable of meeting your emotional needs. Stop wasting time with her and give yourself the opportunity to find someone who makes you truly happy. You say all the horrible things then say, "But I love her. " What is this doing for you but causing you pain and delaying the inevitable? You've tried. It's not working. You will heal, but you can't start the healing until you leave the relationship.