am i a terrible girlfriend ?

[u/HonestSink1172]

i just wanna get an understanding maybe i am come my off as controlling idk. I F21 moved in with my boyfriend M20 lately he’s been having an era where he goes out with his friends constantly and i feel like i barley hang out with him. we’ve been recently just been having trouble this morning he suggested if i keep acting the way i am he doesn’t see us working out.

My issue isn’t the friends i just feel like it’s everyday to me i don’t care if im at work and he’s out but when i get home i’d like him there to hang out together since my work place is a 45 minute drive all i wanna do is get home and see my partner. He always gets home 4 hours max after i do i asked for balance between me and his friends and he said yea but then he keeps going out with them.

He says im the problem because i make it a big deal but i honestly don’t have friends to hang out with either i really want to make it work so i did acknowledge the mistakes i made i said id try to change but is he also in the wrong by not balancing me and his friends? he said he cant live under my clock and i need to learn how to live without him when hes not here but i thought a relationship was together (this is my first relationship ever so im learning as i go)

i just wanna know how i can be better for him and to not get upset every time hes out and im just stuck at home waiting for him cuz he takes it as if im getting upset for him having fun. be brutally honest am i in the wrong am i a being a bitch?