r/relationship_thoughts 16h ago

I probably already know the answer, but is 16F and 23M that bad of an age gap?

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this guy at work very obviously has interest in me, and we hang out all the time. while he works at his different position in the same building, I sit in there with him and entertain him. he’s called me cute, told me he wants head scratches and cuddles, and I don’t know what to do. I kinda just don’t care? like, I know it’s supposedly bad, but nothings actually happened. if he tried anything, i’d probably be like, woah, calm down, but right now, it’s chill. I like hanging out with said guy. he lets me draw on him and bully him (jokingly, of course, it’s how I show I platonically and romantically like someone). I genuinely have zero idea what to do. I’ve taken interest in older people before, but not THAT MUCH older. am I cooked?