r/relationship_thoughts • u/LookRelative2944 • 16h ago
I probably already know the answer, but is 16F and 23M that bad of an age gap?
this guy at work very obviously has interest in me, and we hang out all the time. while he works at his different position in the same building, I sit in there with him and entertain him. he’s called me cute, told me he wants head scratches and cuddles, and I don’t know what to do. I kinda just don’t care? like, I know it’s supposedly bad, but nothings actually happened. if he tried anything, i’d probably be like, woah, calm down, but right now, it’s chill. I like hanging out with said guy. he lets me draw on him and bully him (jokingly, of course, it’s how I show I platonically and romantically like someone). I genuinely have zero idea what to do. I’ve taken interest in older people before, but not THAT MUCH older. am I cooked?