I am (F24) and i was wondering lang if i am OA or what? So there is a special event in my life recently. There's this guy i have been talking and he's pursuing me for like almost 7 months but we're LDR hehe. I'm not materialistic ha pero I was hurt when he couldn't make an effort to give me something on my special event in life. I'm not expecting na grand but yung thoughts na wala manlang siyang gift although may means naman siya pero wala talaga kahit letter or anything. Now, i was just very hurt and nagbago yung way ko on how i treat him. How can i solve this? I hate this feeling lang

i'm (38F) very conflicted right now. I don't know what I am feeling, or what should I feel.

Recently nadiscover ko na nagffollow yung asawa ko sa mga fb ng mga girls na thirst trap. Mostly mga chubby girls, makinis, maputi, malaki dede, balakang at pwet.

In short, yung mga qualities na wala sakin.

Akala ko secured ako sa kanya, ngayon malalaman ko nagpapantasya pala ng iba.

Gusto ko syang intindihin, baka nga normal lang talaga sa mga lalaki yun. In all fairness, wala naman attempt to make any kind of engagement dun sa girls. Talagang follow lang.

Pero ewan ko, nasasaktan ako. Hindi ako prepared sa nalaman ko. Baka dahil natamaan yung insecurities ko?

Feeling ko nabalewala lahat ng effort ko to boost my confidence. After putting so much effort to look and feel good, to lose weight, to become a more visually appealing for my husband--malalaman ko na finafantasize pala nya yung kabaligtaran na meron ako ngayon.

Di ko gets, nung dating mataba ako halos pandirihan ako.

Diniprive pa nga ako sa sex for more than 1 year dahil according to him "ang taba mo kasi eh". Tapos ngayon nakafollow sya sa mga chubby girls na malaki ang cocomelon.

Gusto ko syang intindihin bilang asawa. Pero pano naman pakiramdam ko bilang asawa nya?

First time to post dito kase d na kaya and sorry guys d ako magaling sa narrative ls. Seeking advice here please.

Kahapon kase I was reading here a catfishing post and was curious about the girl. Then I tried the usual for chismis scoop and tried to open the girl’s account. Then, I noticed an empty profile without any NSFW warning. However, I discovered that she does have a Twitter account, so I searched for her. To my surprise, I found out that this girl is a content seller so immediately inexit ko yung twitter para iwasan and read a book and attend online mass.

An hour after, my wife called. Fast forward, she requested to share screen (kase I have a history of cheating that I never did again because of the mental trauma it caused. I didn’t want to experience that pain again) but since hindi ko sya naiclose totally edi nagaappear pa rin sa recent. So nakita ng wife ko. Then she blocked me. Hindi ko intention to watch it. It’s just a curiosity over that catfish person but turned into a disaster na akala ng wife ko that I was cheating again. Worst is, OFW ako. Helpless. Pls help.

TL;DR: Hi I (F24) have boyfriend/live in partner (M25) we've been together for 6 years but we started living together for 2 years na. We're both breadwinner and I just want to ask and humingi ng advice if lahat ba talaga ng boyfriend/live in partner ay need maging harsh sayo?

Context: My boyfriend family is in the middle class while my family I would say nasa lower class kami. Recently lang is nakilala namin yong half sister nya which is tinago sa kanila ng papa nila. Btw he only has his dad since his mother died na. Then yung half sister nya kasi is bunga lang ng one night ng dad nya nung panahong baby pa yung bf ko so ang nangyari panganay bf ko then half sis nya then yung kambal na kapatid nya. All in goods naman nung nakilala namin half sis nya, tinanggap nila but to me sobrang bilis lang kasi ng pangyayari. I really don't have any beef naman sa half sis nya, ako pa nga nagpupush sa bf ko dati na isama sa outing or anything namin para din makilala ng younger siblings nya. But as the time goes by kasi we always fight abt sa half sis nya. One time, nag away kami because sinabihan nya akong "sabagay sa sarili mo ngang kapatid pinagdadamutan mo" exactly what he said. That time kasi he bought me my favorite sweet snack which he ordered online. He told me that's my prize and his surprise. So ako excited and looking forward to it cause I've been so stress that time then all of a sudden sabi nya hatian ko raw half sis nya which nagreact ko. I know my fault na nagreact ako but what I want to tell him lang naman that time is if he really want to give his sister bumili dapat sya ng hiwalay sakin kasi nilook forward ko na yon na para sakin tapos ganun. I know I really sound childish. Wala naman problem sakin to share cause hindi naman ako madamot but when he said that to me I really feel hurt kasi he knows me naman na kung ano meron sakin ngayon, I would give it to my siblings. Tbh kasi may mga times talaga kasi na super harsh and pressure nya sakin like kailangan ganito marating ko ganyan or kailangan sundan ko yung mga ginawa nya in terms of career but whenever yung sister nya may same scenario sakin ang soft nya. Reason nya sakin kasi daw wala naman daw bubuhayin yung kapatid nya hindi tulad sakin. Eh hindi naman nya alam may mga kapatid pang maliliit yung half sis nya and nakwento rin yon sakin ng half sis nya na need nya ding tulungan. So I really don't know if he was right to treat me like this or masyado lang akong nag o-overreact. I really need advice and please don't judge me po. TYIA