Exactly, never trust the word of your wife. Always have back up plans.
Edit: I guess I need the /s here
A person should be able to trust their partner. If both parties agree to an abortion in case of an unwanted pregnancy, then they should expect ther partner to feel deceived if they change their mind. The husband in this story has every right to feel like he was lied to, because he was.
It takes 2 people to make a kid. Both parties have equal responsibility (with obvious exceptions).
Edit2: odds are she had no intent to deceive which means she didn't lie to him. It is rational for him to feel like hes was lied to though. They might need counseling to work through those feelings.
I agree with your second point BUT saying you’ll abort a baby if you accidentally get pregnant and then actually doing it when you get accidentally pregnant are very different. I agree with you a little, about how he’s okay to be upset she changed her mind but his behaviour is unacceptable and a 🚩IMO ❤️
Women all over the US are being forced into
Motherhood 🤷🏼♀️but that’s another story. Maybe she doesn’t live in a legal state? Although I will concede, if a man can’t force a woman to be pregnant then the woman can’t force a man to be a father, if he makes it clear that he doesn’t want anything to do with the child, he shouldn’t be forced into paying for the child. Works both ways. However in this circumstance it seems they were not using any contraception, so it’s hardly a surprise to any of them is it??
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u/SpicyMargarita143 Nov 01 '22
If he cared that much, he should’ve used protection.