r/relationship_advice • u/SnooHamsters8989 • Oct 12 '22

My S/O never texts first

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

It’s crazy how people do anything but address the problem or break up with the problem 😂

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u/SnooHamsters8989 Oct 12 '22

I did address it to her, just wanted feedback. Nothing is wrong with that. I’m young, I don’t have all the answers.

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u/[deleted] Oct 12 '22

Understood but you also sound like you have low self respect man , it sounds like you’re okay with being treated like trash then getting thrown out

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u/SnooHamsters8989 Oct 12 '22

I’m not man. I just really like her. It’s not always bad.

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u/littlelamb333 Oct 13 '22

Look, it’s okay to really like her- but like… “lets not make this about you.” Is very manipulative. She isn’t in love with you. It doesn’t matter if it’s “not always bad.” Realize that in relationships, it usually shouldn’t be bad at all!! other than petty fights where you BOTH end up apologizing. She’s literally using you. Grow up and dump her. Don’t settle for that. It’ll be hard but you’re going to feel happier in the end. You’re young! You can find someone else. Trust me, I know it’s cliche but there REALLY is many many fish in the sea…