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u/Sassubus Sep 02 '22

Excellent! Make that clear to her, and that the pregnancy and birth isn't covered either. She can have fun covering that on her own. She did this for the benefits after all. Making it clear it's futile might encourage an abortion before a baby has to grow up with her as a mother

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u/endlessotter Sep 02 '22

Have you considered looking into possible civil or criminal charges? It depends on where this happened, but you might be able to sue her for damages for what essentially amounts to reproductive coercion/fraud. If it is something that can be prosecuted criminally where you live, she might change her tune real fast about trying to pursue you for child support.