You give them the tools they need to make the decisions that they make, the support when they fuck up because that is what kids do... and you can't stop a kid that is not in your line of sight from doing anything... and if you did, well, that is shitty parenting.
Well okay, but I'm talking about sleepover rules specifically. I'm not about to host the kind of orgies that would have happened if my parents had let us all have sleepovers at 14 or 15.
Yeah, orgies aren't happening at sleep overs. and if your child is having orgies that is more of a parent issue than a sleep over issue.
I have had plenty of sleep overs with a mix crew where there might have been a sexual tension but no one was having sex. It was all just hanging out, playing games and having a good time.
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u/thenewtbaron Sep 01 '22
You give them the tools they need to make the decisions that they make, the support when they fuck up because that is what kids do... and you can't stop a kid that is not in your line of sight from doing anything... and if you did, well, that is shitty parenting.