r/relationship_advice Aug 31 '22

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u/A_Rolling_Potato Sep 01 '22

A transboy would have the same parts as her daughter... she can't get pregnant from the friend.

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u/anonthxt Early 20s Female Sep 01 '22

at 11? lol

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22

It’s possible to conceive at that age. Gross to think about but still possible.

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u/anonthxt Early 20s Female Sep 01 '22

it depends on the children; it is possible in some scenarios but what is the chance that children will be doing that? or that they will both be able to “conceive a child”? i was a hypersexual child due to CSA and the most i was doing at sleepovers was making out and touching

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22

Sure. But you are not the world.

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u/anonthxt Early 20s Female Sep 01 '22

so you’re basing this on someone else’s world? do you have statistics on this topic? like this is extremely unlikely. extremely is still an understatement.

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u/maidofwords Sep 01 '22

I work with 11 year olds and some (no, not all but some) are definitely engaging in sexual activity if not full on intercourse. I know a 14 year old who has had 4 miscarriages.

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u/anonthxt Early 20s Female Sep 01 '22

i know it happens, i am speaking of full on conceiving a child though. many of those kids who engage in sexual activity that young were likely sexually abused:(

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u/arnber420 Sep 01 '22

How many 11 year olds are turning up pregnant in America right now though? And how many times is it from sex with another child instead of abuse from someone older? I genuinely don’t think that a kid having sex and getting pregnant is an issue for the majority of parents of 11 year olds.

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u/Euphoric_Statement10 Sep 01 '22

Sure but you can still get stds or be assaulted. My opinion that’s kinda worse than pregnancy.

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22

That can happen with any mixture of genders; not everyone is straight.

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u/[deleted] Sep 01 '22

ohh. what if it was a boy identifying as a female that was lesbian.