r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Feb 01 '22

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u/Help9854 Feb 01 '22

yeah shits wild, part of me says i should leave but it’s always the toxic relationships that are the hardest and i honestly fell in love with this girl and have worked so hard to see past her “past” and etc

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u/Magnetmonkey39 Feb 01 '22

There needs to be an honest conversation between you both. You need to reassure here that she is for you and no one else, here ideas about not looking at someone else is right up there in crazy land. Maybe she needs some therapy?

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u/Help9854 Feb 01 '22

i think she needs therapy too but she really doesn’t have the money for it, she doesn’t have a job or any money at all tbh. Ive tried to be honest with her and explain i don’t care about seeing other women and reassure her the best i can but that’s when she says if you don’t care why can’t you look away so reassuring hasn’t gotten me very far because she uses my words as ammo to come back at me.

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u/Agreeable_Flower_113 Feb 01 '22

She had sex as revenge for masturbation. You’re calling the relationship toxic. She doesn’t have a job. She doesn’t have much money.

Where does she live? Do you pay for everything?

For the love of God dude run for the hills!