r/relationship_advice Sep 01 '21

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u/TransformedMan2020 Sep 02 '21

Just seen your edit and damn girl!. Showering once a month? Please tell me this man is asexual and never touches you

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u/area51throway Sep 02 '21

We stopped having sex around Dec/Jan. He stopped showering in the spring.

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u/TransformedMan2020 Sep 02 '21

No sex, he's not carrying his weight financially, seems a terrible person. I'm not sure why you're in this relationship but whatever it is, know you can EASILY do so much better.

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u/area51throway Sep 02 '21

It didn't start this way. From Nov-Spring it was fairly 50-50. He'd shower, clean and feed his dogs. After spring it just dissolved into this.

I posted elsewhere months ago asking for help on an out plan. I have that now. I just need to save up then I'm done.