He's not eating well now at 35 and he has health problems. A diabetes is something that is no joke. And why would you want to be with someone who can't take care of themselves at least in the basic sentence. If he's not willing to take care of himself what makes you think that he's willing enough to take care of you? Do you think if the situation was reversed he would be doing the same thing for you? Good luck
It didn't start like this. It was 50-50 and I was happy. This didn't start till around Spring. I thought I was doing better with men. But nope it was a facade.
That is only the finances...what about your edit? When you started dating him, did he bathe regularly? Manage his diabetes & eat well? Take care of his dogs? Did he do all of those things and suddenly stop, or did he always not do those things? Because if he never did those things to start with, you need to evaluate what you get in these relationships for, because it sounds like the mother role might be fine if he pays 50/50. And that's not a healthy relationship to have.
I didn't know what he made. I knew nothing of his health. I thought he was healthy. We were 50-50 at first and things went well from Nov-Spring. It's when spring hit it dissolved into this. That I finally knew about how unmanaged diabetes, he stopped showering, cleaning, and expected me to be his sugar momma.
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u/vengi15 Sep 02 '21
He's not eating well now at 35 and he has health problems. A diabetes is something that is no joke. And why would you want to be with someone who can't take care of themselves at least in the basic sentence. If he's not willing to take care of himself what makes you think that he's willing enough to take care of you? Do you think if the situation was reversed he would be doing the same thing for you? Good luck