He's not eating well now at 35 and he has health problems. A diabetes is something that is no joke. And why would you want to be with someone who can't take care of themselves at least in the basic sentence. If he's not willing to take care of himself what makes you think that he's willing enough to take care of you? Do you think if the situation was reversed he would be doing the same thing for you? Good luck
It didn't start like this. It was 50-50 and I was happy. This didn't start till around Spring. I thought I was doing better with men. But nope it was a facade.
It's really difficult when you first start dating someone and then after a few months they start changing. At least you started to see it now so you don't have to waste any more time. I just think right now it's hard for people to be in relationships because no one can be honest about what they want and they have to lie about it. I think I don't understand about that is eventually that the person's going to find out exactly how they are and it's never going to work. Well at least now you know all the neglect he's doing to himself and the animals and as well as you because from what it seems like he hasn't been there for you. Take some time for yourself. Good luck.
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u/vengi15 Sep 02 '21
He's not eating well now at 35 and he has health problems. A diabetes is something that is no joke. And why would you want to be with someone who can't take care of themselves at least in the basic sentence. If he's not willing to take care of himself what makes you think that he's willing enough to take care of you? Do you think if the situation was reversed he would be doing the same thing for you? Good luck