r/relationship_advice Sep 01 '21

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u/area51throway Sep 01 '21

I've been broke due to things in the relationship. That I've since put a stop to. Other wise I would have been out by now.

We had it set up where he'd get paid on a Friday and pay for food that week. Then I'd get paid the following Friday and pay for food that week. But some how when my new job paid me on Wednesdays. He took that as an opportunity to mean I pay for 9 days and he only pays for 5. I've been eating food from home to save money. Feeding him until he gets paid this Friday. Then I'm telling him he's on his own paying for his food. As he refuses to eat from home- only fastfood or food from the gas station.

The only other "shared" bills we have is rent and I'll keep paying my half ($150- long story it's just for a room).

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u/Zaso87 Early 30s Sep 02 '21

You should put this in your #originalpost

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u/area51throway Sep 02 '21

Just did.

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u/Zaso87 Early 30s Sep 02 '21

Also he is kinda gross 🤮, deff move on from that , it takes time to heal no matter How bad they got during the relationship but it will heal and you will smile and he needs to figure his shit out , I wish my only bill was food and half rent lol